How To Approach Girls

Have you had the unforgettable experience of encountering a gorgeously pretty girl walking down your way and yet you did nothing? Or met a beauty down the hall smiling sweetly at you and you suddenly froze like a sore thumb?

Ok, you can put your hands down now.

You wanted to approach her. You wanted to speak to her, to know her name, and to be with her. But you didn’t.

And you know why? You don’t know how.
But be cool, dude. Today, you will learn the secrets of how to approach girls properly and get desired results.

Here’s how:

1.) CHECK YOU HYGIENCE
Girls would appreciate a guy who walks up to them smelling nice and clean. That means you should take a hard look at your personal hygiene. To begin with, your nails should be clean. Take a bath, put on fresh clean clothes.

“Should I put on an underarm deodorant?”

Of course. Otherwise people gossip about you for days!

Now, comb your hair. To complete your hygiene, dab on some light cologne. Remember we stress the word “dab”. Don’t try to pour the whole bottle of cologne over yourself or you’ll alert the septic tank siphoning company.

One more thing. Make sure you breath smells nice.

If you haven’t brushed your teeth for a week, you might as well do it now. (Reach for a toothbrush and not that steel brush, you dummy!) Bad, smelly breath could spoil your chances when you try to approach girls.

2.) BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOUR POSTURE
Approach girls with confident strides. Keep eye contact. Don’t make a step towards them then back off to a different direction at the last minute. Be smooth about it and you’re good to go. Girls are inherently attracted to guys with killer confidence. And remember to be always polite and friend about it.

“And what if she’s with friends?” you shot back.

Then mingle and talk with each of them. It would add increase your chances of grabbing your girl’s attention if you speak to her friends as well.

3.) PUT YOUR INNER SCANNING RADAR INTO HIGH GEAR
This means you should be alert for the signals she’s giving you. If she smiles back, flicks her hair for no obvious reason, or touches your arm lightly when she talks, then it’s a done deal. Take your time because she’s all yours.

On the other hand, be wary of telltale busy signals. When you have introduced yourself and she looks away, cut clean.

Say, “Nice knowing you,” and then make a graceful exit.

3.) PRACTICE CHIVALRY
When you’re off to a good start with the girl, try to be chivalrous. Open doors for her, guide her to her seat when going to a restaurant, and buy her some premier drinks. Women lament that chivalry is fast becoming extinct nowadays among macho guys.

This is not the time to be stingy.

“But I have limited money,” you blurt out. You give lame alibis like you’re still a student with little allowance, you’re jobless, your pet cat has just delivered a dozen kittens and you used up your money for cat food and diapers, blah-blah-blah.

We say, rubbish.

A soldier must be fully geared up with ammunitions when going to the battle zone. Bear that in mind. You should be prepared for some considerable “financial pain” if you want to successfully approach girls.

As they say, no pain, no gain.
Hope you get the point, Mr. Cheapy.

5 SECRET WAYS TO MAKE A GIRL WANT YOU

Do you ever wish to walk down the street and have girls ogling over just to catch your attention? I bet you do. You want to make a girl want you. Most guys secretly harbor the same wish. But you snap back from your reverie and brush off your wish away.

” I’m just a plain-looking, next-door type of guy, “you tell yourself. “ There’s no way that girls would coo over me. Geesh, that’s impossible! Maybe if I’m George Cloney, or Christopher Reeve. Or if I somehow resemble Brad Pitt. But with my present ordinary self? No way!”

But wait. What if we tell you that you can make your wish a reality–that you can make a girl want you?

“Aw shucks, man,” you interrupt. “I don’t believe it.”

Ok. I perfectly understand your skepticism. I was once skeptical about it, too. And I know how you feel.

Let me illustrate a point. In this illustration, I will discuss about airplane flight. An airplane can fly because of two crucial factors. One, its wings’ round leading edge at front that abruptly tapers off to sharp trailing edge. This design gives the lift. Two, its more than 63, 300 pounds of engine thrust. Combined, these aerodynamic designs make a plane fly.

And it works. This is the same smart design found in birds and in nearly all flying insects. No rocket science in that.

Now, I want you to imagine a Jumbo 747. Rip away its wings. Take apart its robust engine. Do you think it can fly?

“It can’t,” you reply. “It does not take a physicist to figure that out.”

You’re right. In fact, physicists and engineers agree with you. There is no way a giant 747 can fly without the wings and its powerful engine.

But it can. It does fly.

“You must be nuts,” you exclaim.

Nope. This is precisely the case of a bumblebee. To begin with, the bumble has a heavy and bulky body. It has no tapered wings. And to top it all, it has no engine thrusts.

According to scientists, engineers, and every smart brain out there who understand flight, the bumble COULD NOT FLY. IT SHOUD NOT FLY. It’s just impossible!

But the bumblebee does not care what these smart-ass scientists think. It doesn’t give a damn. It defies the science of aerodynamics and just flies.

“So what does this got to do with me?” you ask.

A lot, actually. It is strikingly similar to your secret wish, remember? You believe that to make a girl want you, you have to be handsome. You need to have the looks of a celebrity. You need to have lots of money. You need to be tall, perfectly tanned, etc…
And according to you, there is no way you can make girls want an ordinary-looking guy like you, right?

Wrong.

Right now, several ordinary-looking guys like you are in the arms of pretty gorgeous girls. And to think these guys have no money, got no good looks like George Cloney or Brad Pitt. And they are not even remotely popular. They only got one thing. These guys knew the secrets to make girls want them

Interested? Now, you’re talking. You are now interested on how to make girls want you. You are now dying to know the secrets on how to make girls want an ordinary, plain-looking, next-door type of a guy, like you.

And we happily oblige. Without much further ado, here are the best-kept secrets on how to make a girl want you:

1.) DEVELOP SELF-ESTEEM
In a random survey conducted on all women—from college girls to sexy models to pretty celebrities—they were asked what is the topmost quality that attract them to men. And their answer is the same: a guy’s self –esteem. Not money. Not looks. Not popularity. Just a good dose of self-esteem. These girls are highly attracted to men who show self-confidence.
Develop confidence and you will surely make a girl want you. It’s as simple as that.

2.) SHOW RESPECT
The fastest way to drive girls away from you like a speeding race car zip-zagging at 350mph is to show them disrespect. Treat them in a condescending way and you’re assured of their contempt.
But treat them nice. Treat them well. Be sensitive to the feelings and you will become like magnet to them. You draw and attract them the same way honey draws and attract ants. This is one effective secret to make a girl want you.

3.) ENGAGE THEM IN INTERESTING CONVERSATION
It’s a fact. Men are not good talkers by nature. We’d rather act and do things, rather than talk.
But women are different. They like to talk. And if you want make a girl want you, you have to learn how to engage her in an interesting conversation. It’s similar to catching fish with worm bait.
In this case, the fish is the girl and the bait is interesting conversation. Put out an interesting conversation and you can make a girl want you.

4.) BE SOCIALLY KNOWLEDGEABLE
In plain words, this means you should be in touch with the current events. You should be familiar with the evening news. In addition, you should know who made it to Ophra’s Show last night. Or the latest Armani fur suit. You should also know what’s hot in female perfume, and that what made the main star dump her boyfriend in TV series “Friends”. These things make a girl want you.

5.) BE A SMART DRESSER
Now, now, now. Don’t cringe. I know. Most men are sloppy dressers. We are not really keen on how we look with clothes. But if you want to make a girl want you, be a smart dresser. You see, women are visual creatures when it comes to how men dress. They’re a stickler to it. Remember that survey we talk about a while ago about what things attract women? Here’s one for you. They confessed that they are attracted to men who are smart dressers. By smart dressers, they mean that guys wear clothes fit, color-coordinated, and visually appealing. This means that what you wear SHOULD NOT HAVE loose hanging buttons, no holes, and no ketchup stains on sleeves. If you pay particular attention to how you dress, you will definitely make a girl want you. Guaranteed.